Jlove - where was your wife mentally and emotionally with your marriage prior to going to the event? Had she waived the white flag completely? Or had she made any indication that she would be willing to work on it?
I look at your info in your sig and it doesn't appear she ever filed or retained a lawyer - my w has done both. Which is fine, I still will fight for the marriage - I just don't know how badly marriages are defunct or on life support going into the event and how they come out. I mean, are there couples in there starring daggers into each other the first day? Sitting apart?
