I didn't see it coming part 2

[breakdownbill]

Hi Bond

I guess I don't have to move out really, well it's all hypothetical at the moment. The last time we had an R talk - my W asked me if I would move out to see what it would be like separated. I said to her, 'You are the one who is unhappy, so why don't you leave'? To which she replied, 'If I have to move out, I'm taking the kids with me'. Now I don't know if that is an idle threat or not, but I would feel really low uprooting my kids from their home.

To be fair, I didn't realise 'til now that what she had said, had such an impact on my thinking about moving out.

I think I need to stop thinking about it & just see how it plays out over the next few weeks.

I mean hypothetically if my W still wants separation & was prepared to take the kids away from their home, could you let that happen?

I know what she has said is manipulative, but I don't think I could let the above scenario happen and still sleep at night.

Bill