I am no expert on any of this, but I would say that she is hoping for the H she wants you to be.
yup... I'd say you are an expert and bang on...
So really... it is my choice to step up and be the H she wants me to be... unless I really do not want to be that person... or I can not be someone that at least resembles that person, in some way, for my W...
I've heard it said this way, "If you are working on them, then they will eventually fail."
Kinda the same thing as trying...
No try... do... or do not...
The 180s have to be a habit... are they, yet?
And second of all... are the 180s something that your W actually likes?
Not because you are doing them to please your W... you are doing them for you...
But if your W doesn't dig those 180s, then really it is of no value for her to let you know she does not think they will last... that really just becomes a test for you... putting your focus on making the 180s last... rather than doing 180s that you want to do... that you know she also appreciates...
