I just get frustrated with the fence sitting my W is doing. She has stated that she has no plans to move or file D anytime soon. However, when I even suggested a MC her only response was that we tried it once before.
Many of us understand that frustration. My W (now I'm coming on 18 mos since I moved out) told me from the very beginning that she was that whole script thing they say... and was happy going on with life (living separate lives) and had no desire to file...
Basically, perpetual limbo...
Why do you think that is, SIW?
Do you think that is because she did not want to be M to me?
Or do you think that maybe... just maybe... she hoped that one day, I might come around and be the man... the H... she wanted me to be...?
'cause from what I've seen in life and relationships... when things are over... they get over and done... that simple...
Do you really believe that when your W answered your question about MC with saying you'd tried it before... did she say, "no. not going to do it again." Or did she say you tried it before...
Because if she did not say absolutely no... Could it be possible that she is really wanting you to convince her that things will be different at MC... this time...?
