Thank you Cadet and alamo76.

I have read the 37 rules and am doing my best to follow them. Our only real contact is because of the kids...and I keep the conversation light and positive...no talk of R except for slip up this past Saturday. I am really hoping "believe none of what she says and half of what she does" is correct...because she looks (and acts) as if she's moving on.

Only counselor is IC...she says she's not ready to talk about this yet. As Cadet says...she needs space, and I'm trying very hard to give it to her.

But how much is too much?


Me:44, W: 39
D:16, D:14, D:11(special needs)
M:17, T:21+
Bomb:3/18/12
W contacted mediator for D:3/27/12
Separate since bomb
Mediation, signed agreement 5/17/12
No talk of D since mediation