My situation with my WAW....

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My wife is having an affair with a coworker, she has moved out of the family home, has severed all contact with my family and all of her friends that are married. She has filed for divorce, her attorney is the sister-in-law to the man she is seeing. The man she is seeing is 12 years older than her, divorced, with two children, and he is still currently living with hie ex-wife.

My wife and I have a 19month son, my wife will not see or do therapy, she says its to late and to much has happened, that she does not love me anymore and that she married the wrong man.

In the begining I was doing alot of begging,pleading, reaching out to family and friends, which has seemed to push her very far away, I havn't been doing that lately and have become more unavailable to her, even though she only seems to call to tell me how I am a bad father and that she is building a case against me.

When there are any face to face oppertunities I am dressed nice and smelling good, giving the image that I have places to go and people to see, but she is unfased by this, showing no signs of any interest.

I have run out of ideas, to open her eyes to what she is doing and how it is negativly impacting our son.

I love my wife dearly, I have a plan for my own actions, but I need a plan to get through to her... help advice thoughts