I have started reading "I Don't Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression" by Terrence Real.
I'm 50 pages into the book. I am blown away. It's giving me a much better handle on WAW and my role in it.
If you're a man dealing with depression/abandonment, go read it.
(formerly crushd) Married 14 yrs M41/W43/D7/S4 M: MLC, major depression/W: WAW Bomb 2/26/12, 2 days before anniversary Detachment, Grown Apart, "I love you like the father of my children", EA/PA?