I get what you're saying, scaredsilly, but, honestly, I've done a lot to prevent my husband from feeling emasculated. I get really annoyed when I feel like he's trying to control me when 6 months ago he was doing whatever he pleased with OW. I am independent by nature. This is who I am and who I've been since I was a baby. I'm not going to hide who I am just because he may not like it. This is who he married. I've always this way and pretending to be a weak woman just because it may, on the off chance, intimidate him.

He has said to me in the past that he loves the fact that I think for myself, am rational and can take care of myself. I don't think that he is intimated by my independence. I think it's more that he thinks that motorcycle licenses are dangerous and I'll get hurt. I've wanted to do this ever since I was a teenager and used to ride as a passenger with my father. This is just another part of who I am and, as part of GAL, I decided to start to do all of the things on my "bucket list", per se. This is pretty high up there on things I want to do before I die (as morbid as that sounds).


M:29
H:30
M:2.5 years
T:13 years
No kids
EA:11/2011
PA:01/2012
Bomb:02/2012
H starting another EA, I had enough and we seperate: 03/08/2012
Trying to decide what I want for a change...