hrm, He's still in crazy town and will be there for a while. Apparently he wanted to charge the tires and then would expect you to pay the bill. The amount of cash that you gave him made him feel guilty for taking it out of the account. For some, if it's charged, then it doesn't take away from the bank account, I know, that sounds crazy, but that's the way they think.
Your h wanted you to jump up and down about his repairing of the toilet. He wanted you to "gush" about it and when you didn't, he got upset. He's looking for validation and recogition from you.
Continue as you have been and just remember, he's operating on pure emotions these days and he will be all over the place. Keep your expectations at zero and don't be surprised by anything he does.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
