Yesterday evening was the complete opposite of Sunday. There were no hugs. No cuddling. She didn't come near me when going to bed.

I've come to notice we don't talk unless it's about our son. I've stopped bringing up small talk conversations as part of the 37 steps... It's so quiet around here....

I've also noticed she's stopped asking for help with our son or tasks around the house. Things like bath time and getting our son ready for bed have always been a group activity. I make sure I'm still there at these times for my son, but my wife isn't responsive to my help.

I'm frustrated, lonely, and confused.


M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done