I was the OM's, W, and the last to know about my H's A. It was still ongoing.

Whilst I wish I had been told sooner, as the A was ongoing, the whole experience is so painful that, if the A had ended, I would rather have never known about it.

I hope that helps.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength