S15 came home tonight mopey and really moody, wouldnt talk at all. He had been out to eat with his D. after about an hour of watching him like that I finally asked him what was wrong...he started tearing up and said ow had called his D while they were out and his Ds phone was so loud he could hear the whole conversation (they were in his truck)..he said "she called him babe...and said I love you to him"... by the time he got it out he was full on crying.

Now, i will tell you that this man has always been pretty clueless our whole marriage, but really??...your son can hardly make himself spend any time with you and this is a decision you think is wise with your 15 yr old son sitting next to you in your truck????

I of course, waited for S15 to go to bed to have my cry...the thought of another woman saying that to my husband made me want to scream...and I can assume that he has said it to her, whitch makes me want to throw up........when does that stop?? anyone able to answer that one for me???

Me:48 H:42
M: 18 yrs.
S: 9/1/09 due to alcoholic H
D bomb: 9/9/11
OW confirmed 10/30/11
D papers filed 11/01/11
S15 S21(Special needs) S28

Look to yourself, It is there that all your answers are found...