I just wanted to jump in here and say that when xh left and I was doing all the questioning. I said to him I thought he was Happy at home, intimate life included. He said yes he was BUT he wanted to try something different, something challanging. Now I know they lie but I think he was being pretty honest. It was like he craved challange. He told one of my good friends husband that he wanted to have twin girls! He said he needed a change and a challange.
We could not have stopped them if we were made of gold! They think they missed out on something and are willing to take the risk (he said that too), of losing everything for the rush. By everything, I mean family, kids, job.....even personal belongings and favorite hobbies. Unreal!
