We had our session with our MC to go over telling the kids H is moving out. She actually suggested that he do a staggered move, so they can digest it in little bits. H and I were both receptive to the idea, we are going to be alternating nights spending time with them but both being "around". Then he wants to drive to his place when they go to sleep. All in all it went well, but H said at one point that he felt I was being "controlling" during this process. I resisted the urge to get angry and say "Seriously, you are leaving your family when you still have a child in diapers and I am controlling???" But I took a deep breath and asked the MC if she saw it that way, she said that she sees me feeling like I have no control. Anybody have any thoughts on this?
Appt with the lawyer went well, she just gave me lots of info. I let her know that I didn't want to file, just to to gather info.
When I got home I watched H out the window for awhile interacting with the kids, and he actually seems happier than he has in a long time. This confuses me.....
M 37, H 37 M 10, T 12 S 4 D 2 3/14/12 ILYBNILWY 4/2/12 H consults a L, files nothing 4/26/12 H moves to his new place
