I just blocked H from calling, texting and emailing. I didn't do it to be mean and I don't know that I can keep him blocked long term for practical reasons, but I felt like I needed to do something to take control over how I am treated. I don't want to have phone conversations because he controls them by hanging up when he doesn't want to hear my opinions or feelings. I also hate wondering throughout the day if his name will popup on my phone. And I surely don't want to read anymore emails since the last one went on and on about his attorney this and that. I just can't have another day like Friday. It took hours to stabilize after his threatening email, etc. I have asked him to contact me through my attorney. Am I asking for more drama by doing his or is it a step in the right direction?
