AFFAIRS- Do you tell the Other Spouse?

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If the affair is over and you are moving forward, I would probably let it go and leave it up to the other couple.

I do have a friend whose W had an affair and when he discovered it, he let the wife of the OM know. It was very effective in helping both parties quickly come to their senses and begin to work on their marriages (they had done things together as friends/couples so they all knew each other).