Well it's been a bumpy ride but we're still together. We are still in counseling and will be for some months. W has agreed to leave her work, which she loves, but whilst I have tried, I'm unable to get over her continuing to work where the OM might still find excuses to bump into her. The assurance is that it's over, there's been a "no contact letter", and W's manager, whilst not aware of the situation, has been asked to have OM deal with someone else in the department when necessary. Still, I'm not going to put myself in the situation of being the sucker who thought everything would be ok and not require a commitment to move away from this situation. W has agreed, we have an outlook to a new future together now and we are spending a lot of quality time together. I am continually looking to myself to be a better man and whilst I may never be perfect I am 200% committed to continuing to be the best husband I can.
