WAW for 6+ years -- Need Help

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Wow, it's been 8 months since my last update. Nothing new though. W is comparing me to her BFF's husband who has admitted to not loving BFF for 20+ years of marriage. Sorry, dear, but we are different people. For one, I've never made a comment like that. W compares me to BFF's husband because of his approach "my way or the highway." Or at least that's how I was at times, no doubt. I accepted that and changed it. However, I'm not that guy anymore and W now doesn't know what to do about that while also waiting for OM to leave his wife. Well, it's been 10 months since he's "seen" a lawyer and still nothing from him. S goes off to college in August, we'll see what happens then when we start discussing our next steps as we will not have any kids at home then. Finally had to turn this over to God and let Him deal with it. MC told me wife has mid-life crisis, but also a type of anxiety toward me not being there for her when she really needed me to be. So, both things working against me. Just have to keep doing what I'm doing. I graduate in October with a BS in Management. Serenity Prayer follows for all if you need it.

God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.

Semper Gumby!