WOW! That was a rollercoaster classic move. Didn't even see that twist and bottom falling out coming, did you?

In my journaling U had written a couple different lists of what I would expect/want were my H to say he wanted to get back together. Because he has said that several times only to bounce back to OW usually quickly.

I wrote things like long term MC, Changes I would hope to see him make on his own, without my asking for them, words I would want to hear without prompting. Did you ever mame such a list?

And my H's cousin also was left by his wife and they got back together a few years later. I talked to him recently. He told me that he believes my H will come back to me. And he said when he does, to make him beg and crawl for awhile, don't just cave and go back.

He said he made his now wife again wait 6 months, because he didn't want to disrupt the kids and he really wanted to believe her sincerity in wanting to work out their relationship. And they seem pretty happy now days.

Back again to WOW!

Aloha,

Wendy

Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
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