Thanks AJ. To answer your question about me worrying about taking xh to court. I dont want to give son anymore reason to stay away longer. You see my son was with me in the beginning and I had to ask him to stay with his dad for awhile because I couldnt even get him out of his room....no college job. His dad always had all the respect as far making son do things. So I knew if son stayed with me he would not do anything with his life. I sent him to his dads for awhile but the longer son was there the less he talked to me. My xh has a BIG influence on my son. There was a couple times I took stuff to son at his house and my son would get scared if I even pulled in the driveway with NO ONE home but him. He has heard his dad talk saying I am crazy, told son things like get away from me. My xh is justifying leaving me by saying those things to son. With that said...if I take my xh to court, he will just use this to show son I am STILL trying to cause trouble. They totally have tried to make my son believe that his dad HAD to leave. My son has even said to me you made dad leave because he couldnt live with you any longer. So there ya go. I cant win. My son needs more time I know. BUT it is so hard to miss out on the important things in his life. I live within 10 miles prb less and cant even talk to him. Very sad! It makes me upset here because people think I am using som to talk to h. That is not the case at all. I have went many months not talking to h. I dont try anymore, well except for trying to get money that belongs to me without being trashed to my son.
