Just wanted to follow up. I am not actively trying to do anything to get her back. I've stepped up working out but that is really just for me. She moved out a little over a week ago. She changes her mind about custody every couple days. Last week she said two oldest kids would stay with me and youngest would split time between us. She told the kids last night we were doing a 2 day rotation will all of them (which she has not discussed with me but I guess I should be happy with 50%). She fired her attorney apparently. Still very moody. I took off easter week and took all three kids on a vacation, we had a lot of fun... but that appears to really upset her.