This move seems sort of dangerous. I also did the same thing and I feel it was a grave mistake. I now feel that any problem was an US problem. The fact that I didn't look at it as an US problem must of made her feel alone and blamed. This could only add to the distance it must of created and the resentment over time.
This was many months ago. I would never make this suggestion now. When I made this suggestion I thought our relationship was strong. I honestly thought it was an open conversation between us and that she was asking for help.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done