Trusting, You are a very generous person. Your xh doesn't know just how lucky he is to have you as an "ex". I would have only given him until Wednesday, cob. That would have been three days to get the funding to you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.