I changed my settings and she friended a friend of mine, local dj who accepts all friend requests. Then she was able to see because I had it set to friends of friends or something like that.

I private messaged to dj friend and asked her to unfriend OW. She did. I like leaving it on friends of friends because I do my class reunions and want my extended network, who I don't want to friend all of the,m to be able to see what they want.

I just find it silly that she persists in the spying, text messaging, emailing. She has stopped for right now. I told my H that I see when he tells her stuff about what is happening in our house that is when I get the hate. I told him to quit telling her my stuff. I know he won't stop. But at least then he can notice the cause and effect!


Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!