Yup, and that's exactly where my head is at for my sitch.
Maybe it is just me, this thread looks like D as a threat... or any of this... to an outsider... perhaps a newbie... could be perceived as a tactic...
"oh look, so and so threatened D and that worked. I should threaten D..."
I do think maybe this is "just you," Kaffe -- maybe your own triggers at work here? You wouldn't be the first. I would never, EVER suggest something as serious as filing for a divorce to be used as a tactic or even a strategy. I happen to take the Biblican view of wedding vows, for one thing, and that would never allow me to suggest such a thing.
