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Yup, and that's exactly where my head is at for my sitch.

Maybe it is just me, this thread looks like D as a threat... or any of this... to an outsider... perhaps a newbie... could be perceived as a tactic...

"oh look, so and so threatened D and that worked. I should threaten D..."

I support you in your path Autumn, because it is the same as mine in that regard.

In my case, my W continues to interfere in my life, telling me what to do and how to do it and when to do it...

I can have no expectations, but there is a pattern... and patterns have a tendency to repeat themselves...

Unfortunately... until the pattern is stopped by the individual who is in control of it... it will continue... even if we D...

D will not stop your H's patterns...

Only YOU can stop being affected by those patterns...

protect yourself... I did...

But I have not filed D, yet...

I will only do that when I am ready... when there is a reason for me to do so...