Sorry I don't know the laws where you live. But divorce = space, you must give her the space that she is looking for.
You got good adice on the above thread. My suggestion is to give her what she wants but fight like heck for visitation with your son. You must be the BEST dad possible.
Have you ever tried to hold on to a wet bar of soap. The harder you squeeze the more it slips away. You must let her go and maybe she will find love in her heart again sometime later.
