We talked this am, and I gave her ideas regarding the accounts they have, and possibilities for headaches.
Autumn.
I'm going to head something off at the pass here... (You know some of this).
I didn't handle anything financial in my prior marriage. I only partially listened to my L about securing my finances. It cost me (at least half) of $50k that xH pulled from a line of credit on our marital home.
I only partially listened/acted on advice from my L because of fear. I feared I was over-reacting, feared I wasn't making a good choice, feared xH would blow a gasket, etc...
Don't let that fear be part if your movement. Secure you home and finances for you and boys.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
