1-Reminder: Save ALL txt's and emails. ( copy and paste txt's into iPhone notepad as you get them, or email to yourself) 2-Mske sure you have the one re:stop badgering you. 3-First question to L is how to handle marital funds to retain her. 4-At the very least, secure your accounts to require double signatures to withdrawal funds (large amounts). 5-Find out how to protect yourself from him opening new credit jointly. 6-Get legal advice on the visitation.
I have to say. You sound mad and a bit thrown off guard, but you are completely reasonable and emotionally solid.
You've got this.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
