Originally Posted By: Autumn Leaves
Great suggestions Starsky. I now realize how carefully I need to phrase things, as he takes my niceness as vulnerability . . .



I know. That's why I'm trying to come up with phrasing that is both:

a) civil, even nice

b) still lets him know that nothing has changed regarding your boundaries (the "no matter what happens" part)


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