Hang in there ITM. I'm in the same boat you are financially. I make too much for any assistance (food or healthcare assistance) but not enough to live on really. I'm $1200 a year over the cut off......what a crock!

In short, I sympathize.

Your STBX is a sick individual. It's twisted to contact you on your anniversary and say how sorry he is that he's done things to you that couldn't be repaired and then to go to FB and rub salt in the wounds by joking about the end of your marriage. No, you aren't on his friend list, but I'm sure plenty of people you both know are and he knew it would get back to you. Nothing is private! What a dufus!

How fun playing softball! I played when I was 8 years old.....won the award for losing the most blood. LOL! I'm not kidding! The ball always managed to find my nose. I wasn't too good at blocking it!


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!