I was a bit worried about this. From the moment he uttered "trial separation" it gave him an opening to start doing things he thought you would want, and not for the benefit of his person (first).
I completely understand your concern re: visitation in the home... Probably better than anyone else... (here's the but) but, is it possible to explain the concerns/boundary, and tell him you're agreeing to try it for a week or two. I just know how much better it is for the kids(since his residence is temp). You know his ability to control the Party Dad lifestyle... So, just my thoughts w/out a full picture...
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
