What's happens when u lose interest in WAS??

[2chiquitos]

I spoke to my DB Coach on Fri for the last time.

My new goals:
1-more alone time without kids (when they are asleep)
**I will continue acting "as if"
**Continue tapping into his LLs - acts of service (clean kids/house, preparing him food once in a while); affirmation
**Continue minding my own business when he lingers -wait for him to initiate conversation; if he's in living room, go do something in the kitchen

2-H talks less about us independently in the future tense
**stop doing the same. This may be a contributing factor
**Continue GAL and 180
**consider other 180s- ones I would do if I was MLC

I will be using my friend as my DB cheerleader from here on out! and all of u!
This weekend he will be moving out of his parents and into an apt. I was hoping to DB by then, however I realize this is a MLC type 3 and it may take another yr (if I'm willing to wait-doubt it!)

Wish me luck!