PS KML I was thinking about your cougar posts.....
LOL! See, it's not just me! There's a whole weird zeitgeist out there, with young men pursuing US. Who'd a thunk it???? It NEVER happened to me in my 30's and 40's.
As for your H - that's fine that he invited you to watch TV with him, but the second he got on the phone to OW, I would be out the door.