Hey BklynMom-I was reading through various posts and read some of yours and I can sympathize.
My W walked out on my S and I to a whole another lifestyle. Her L is some rookie cheapo guy that had my L wondering if he even was a D lawyer. It's crazy how people think they can just walk away with no ill will like we are suppose to just be ok with it and be friends. My W wants to secretly somehow get a D that people won't know about but somehow still misses my family who at this point have no positive feelings for her.
Anyway not trying to recount my whole stitch here but hang in there.
Me:29 W:28 S:2 M: 5 years Bomb: 7-26-11 Separated: 8-20-11 EA w/ multiple OMs W filed 1/2012