"...I feel like this could go on for a long time and create ill will where there is none now."
That is such BS!! The only reason he perceives that there is no ill will is because you are fighting to save your M; not because you are some sort of benevolent LBS who only wants to protect his feelings.
He wants to communicate one on one with you or with the lawyers present so he can try to manipulate things to get his way. Don't fall for it, Bklyn. Stand your ground. ou'll be glad you did.
Never forget that he is choosing to walk out on you and your 2 very small children instead of trying to work on the marriage.
Take this for what it is worth, this is only my opinion.....
I am about as infuriated reading your post as you probably are writing it!
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It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
