Sorry I could of swore I posted. Something must of went wrong!
Labug, do you mean what I thought was my best thinking? Like yesterday I thought I needed to go to my Ws house and talk to her. To ask her where are we going with this. To ask her about her relationship with former friend. I was totally convinced my thinking was correct. But I see now that would of been the worst thing I could do. I have to quit thinking about what she is thinking. I have to keep my cool and stay detaching. I have to let her be. She wants time and space. I have to make her make the next move. Sometimes I believe she is trying to outlast me. But if she wants out for any reason, shes going to have to do it. Im for our marriage.