Brief update in what may be the torpedoing of my marriage:
W and I talked over the weekend and I pried for information on the OM and feelings. Dummy me....she tells me that she thinks she 'could' love him. After only a few encounters, I'm baffled. So, I respond by saying I thought it best that she move out until she figure things out. Classic fool. Also said to her that I felt that I was done and wanted to move ahead with Divorce (which I absolutely do not). She's still here, but I'm sure these two statements have broken whatever spirit she had to try and work through this.
I feel like whatever progress (however little) has been made, I've now blown it.
I can't seem to gain ground on what it is I'm supposed to do in this situation. I'm going to try and give her as much space as possible at this point and hope that she want to work through this.
