To recap on my activities that seem to be working:
- giving him space as he requested. - NO initiating any contact (unless for practical purposes) - no crazy outbursts of love - no outbursts at all - pure friendly communication - looking attractive at all times when he is around -if something shitty happens, I overlook it and don't make a big deal of it. - read 1001 books, including DB and Solo Partner - Coach for support - What I am enjoying the most is getting on with my life in so many ways - moving, nurturing my friendships, exercising (which I did anyway), having many outings, improving and focussing on my career, feeling happy inside myself about my own self and feeling secure about where I am headed in my life.
My 180's - no outbursts - no leaning on my H for help with things I can easily do myself - overlooking things that would bother me in the past - a true focus on my career and friendships - moving home - just a general attitude of taking control of my life which is having very positive psychological effects and I feel like I am lightening up.
Ultimate Life Goal: Reinforce my personal identity whilst in a relationship.
