I think that is what bothers me so much about this latest move out of the country I can get over it if he doesn't want to be with me but the boys are never going to get over it. They seem to be handling it ok now but I am not sure they realize how far away he really is. I dont understand why he would want to miss so much of their lives. It isn't even like he will be a part time dad he is going to be no kind of dad. disgustes me.