I'm going to get in trouble for saying this.... Have you though about tying him to the bed and having your way with him?

Okay not really that, but maybe you should not worry so much about all your little imperfections, but just reach out to him.

I hate that we get frozen in place and fret so much about little stuff. I know you don't want to scare him off. On another thread we have talked about "Operation Feral Cat".

Which you have been doing for years with him. Maybe it it time to pick up that cat and see if ir purrs!

Aloha,

Wendy

Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
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