HI Alby44

Sorry you are here....I am in a similar position except my W is not willing to work on the marriage and wants a separation.

As well as the good advise above, its imperative that your dont pressurise her in any way, dont seek reassurance and dont raincheck the R. all the time.

Your W has negative feelings towards you, she wont come back to you until those negative feelings are gone.

Write done all the changes in You that SHE perceives since you got marriaged. Try to rediscover the man she fell in love with.

Also take care of yourself: get fitter, eat healthier, get enough SLEEP, its very important for your mental wellbeing.

Take Care


Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16