Oh, and do not fear her wrath. She will get mad when things don't go her way. Tough! "Sorry you feel that way." Or, "Wow, that must be upsetting for you." Believe it or not, "mad" is "good." Do not get sucked in when she appears to be "happy" or "nice" to you. This is an indicator that she is getting her way with OM, plans for her "wonderful" new single life, whatever. If she does try to suck you back in, "I don't know how I feel about this. I have a lot of thinking to do and decisions to make." Short, declarative statements. Less is more. And NEVER tip your hand to her. WAS's are very selfish, cruel, and manipulative. Water off a duck's back. You are in control of YOU. Not every shot will be called by her. Believe it!
