JS, I have spent a good deal of time reading all your threads the past few days. You are a good man. I spent some time reading about ninelives. I shed some tears. It put some things into perspective for me. You are amazing. I hope you keep posting here. I, only into this for a few months, hope to learn from you. In the space of 4 months, my divorce will be final. I don't know what will be in the future, but I take great strength from your journey.