Thanks grocery. I completely understand what you are saying. Tomorrow starts my softball league so that will help. I definitely am trying to find ways to get my mind off things.
At the same time, today was definitely interesting. It started with her taking me to go see an apt shes interested in. I told her when we decided on the separation that I would help her find a place and I guess shes taking me up on that. She doesn't want to ask her mom or sister or even friends for help, shes looking to me. Its about 20 mins from home so I can live with that - I need to regardless. One thing I noticed is that she has started talking about things like she doesnt want to set something in stone or make big purchases in the event she wants to come home. Furniture for apt was one example, not getting her own bank account is another, even down to the stuff that she will buy - she wants to make sure it would have a purpose in our house. Like I said interesting day.
I will miss her coming to my games and cheering me on though...
