Individual space seems to be working at the moment, but is there such a thing as too much space??? Will she see that as my not wanting to engage her? Is the ILYBINILWY something that can be overcome with time and patience? Is it a decision based on my past inabilities to change, and if so, can she make the decision to love again as she sees positive changes??? I’ve made a number of observable changes that I think she’s noticed but has not said anything, which I expect her not to.
IMHO this is not about YOU. This is about HER. But the only person that YOU can CONTROL is YOU. So stop worrying about what you need to do to WIN her back and start making changes for YOU.
Keep giving her space and let her control the contact.
