We got some things ready for our sons birthday party and then watched some TV...
We went to bed. I said goodnight. She simply responded, "goodnight." Up until this point she would still tell me she loves me, give me a kiss, and then snuggle up close. Last night there was nothing. It took all the strength I had not to jump out of bed and go sleep elsewhere. I had such a strong mix of anger and anxiety.
I feel so crushed. It's like she's pulling further away. We pass each other around the house and it's like we're awkwardly in eachother's way.
I'm not doing well this morning.
I feel it's wise to give her some space. Maybe do something like encourage her to go out on a ladies night out while you watch your son. Make it your idea and do it will a smile. It has to be authentic though. If you see that letting her go and be "herself" will actually bring her closer, then hopefully you will have the outcome you are looking for.
