Originally Posted By: Farmer
I just dont understand what she is thinking.


Then stop trying.

That is not a goal that leads anywhere.

How about making a choice for YOU regardless of what she is thinking right now?

i think this will become clearer for you Farmer if you really try to answer my questions...

Well really they are not mine.

They are yours.

And it will take time for you to find the answers while going through the fire of the trials of standing for what you believe.

I know you are here to save your M and you may.

Defining your success by the choices of a confused walkaway spouse is a long shot at best.

Choose for you. Live your life based on your values.

It is the difference between being a victim of someone else

and victory on your own terms.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am