I threw out all of H's belongings. When he had me served, I told him I would give him until April 1st to pick everything up and if he didn't I would assume he no longer wanted them and will throw them away. April 1st came and went, he didn't make any attempt to get anything so out they went. I gave him plenty of time to get his things. Almost 14 months to be exact. I'm not a storage facility.
I could have been a B and threw out all of his important documents (birth certificate, SS card, etc) but I didn't want to go that route. Instead I placed them in an envelope and had them sent to where he is living. No contact since the middle of February, and I am ok with that.
I still think about him. I still love and miss him but the hope of us ever reconciling is gone. Too much time has gone by. I am a different person now and finally realize that I am better off.
"Everyone you meet has baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack." ¤Formerly DelinquentGurl¤