Spinning, neglect, loss and the bomb

[breakdownbill]

If it's individual counselling - knock yourself out and it would be good to get it all off your chest.

If it's MC and you are together, your W will not thank you for bringing it up in that environment and won't help your situation. IMO if you are going to bring it up and want to talk to her about it, do it at home.

But before you do ask her - ask yourself some questions.

How do you think she'll react?

Will it do anything to benefit you situation or the way you are feeling?

Am I ready to handle this difficult conversation without it doing any more damage to my sitch?

She might have been on the fence about seeing this OP again, but will my conversation influence her choices in the way that you want?

Just think about it, before you decide to confront her or not.

Bill